Written by Djeph Boaz
Edited by Aqua Luna
 
Whom ever had the idea that women are week was an Idiot!  There is nothing more pathetic than a man who has underestimated a woman whether it is his wife, girlfriend, sister, coworker, or some random woman on the street. When a woman is tired of a situation those around her tell her that her significant other is a loser, abuser, dickhead, or whatever it might be. So when she resolves herself to change; you my friend are in trouble. We all want that Angel pure and sweet that moves like a stripper under the sheets, yet the idea of what she wants is incomprehensible to the male mind.  So if you suspect your marriage, relationship or whatever it is having trouble,  it’s probably too late, even if you get the inclination to meet her needs mentally she has most likely killed you off in her mind as her significant other. You may notice that she likes to go for walks so you start going for walks to show that you are meeting her more than halfway.  Yet you have not noticed all the other little changes in her life. While you are playing the Xbox live, she’s spending 3hrs at the gym. While you are pounding back that brew, she’s paying the electrical bill and buying your groceries. You complain that there’s no decent food in the house, yet she’s on a new diet regiment and getting hot. The fat’s melting off of her like butter and you’re running to mac daddy’s for a big whopping burger and a shake. You think you get it and join a gym you go twice a week, she goes everyday for at least 2 and a half hours. When a woman resolves that she no longer wants to be with you, that is what will happen.  She will start slowly and make changes that are positive for her life, changes that you don’t see.  If you do not see the changes in her life, you will be replaced. When someone says to her “Are you still with that loser?” or “You deserve better!” you will be trouble.  You’re having burping contest and she has her eye on the office man whore.  Why?  Because she doesn’t want a relationship with you anymore and she realized what a pathetic loser it turned you into. In her mind she wants to be fucked like she was in college. Mentally you’re still sixteen yet she’s been reading romance novels, self improvement books, and half a dozen other mind expanding references for the last 7 years.  We as men have stumbled upon the local hog beast now and again, but if you think that you’re some kind of catch, remember this; there is always someone out there right around the corner that sooner or later is going to catch her attention, and they are ten times more of a man that you are. If your woman wants to talk or vents to you about your inadequacies, do not walk away, ignore her, or invalidate her feeling in any way.  Validate her feelings hold on to her and tell her you understand. Ask what she has been doing to make improvements and how you can help.  Your Idea of change is doing the dishes once a week, her idea of change is cooking dinner together then doing the dishes together. Your Idea of change is going for a walk after dinner, her idea of change is going to the gym for two hours after dinner every night, and then having passionate sex.  Men are use to pounding things into place like a hammer and a nail, however women are more willing to take the time to use a screw driver and screw to make sure that floor board of the foundation of your relation ship won’t pop up again.  Unfortunately if she constantly has to go back and replace your nails with screws, she will find a man who will give her a good solid screw!